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krystalxlyte — Sun, 24 May 2009 05:24:54 -0000

@ Khanee

No you're not the only one girl!! I though Spock had blown Kirk STRAIGHT out "fine"ness department..the way he rocked those ears and still looked something hot sexy can get it from me on the kitchen counter anytime! LOL!!!

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krystalxlyte — Sun, 24 May 2009 05:10:04 -0000

I saw this too it was so very refreshing...I love this new admistration!!!!

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krystalxlyte — Sun, 24 May 2009 01:24:54 -0000

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krystalxlyte — Sun, 24 May 2009 01:10:04 -0000

I saw this too it was so very refreshing...I love this new admistration!!!!

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ZooPath — Wed, 20 May 2009 23:31:52 -0000

I met my husband on eharmony, best 150$ I've ever spent. I recommend it.

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ZooPath — Wed, 20 May 2009 19:31:52 -0000

I met my husband on eharmony, best 150$ I've ever spent. I recommend it.

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Grata — Wed, 20 May 2009 17:22:35 -0000

"Most of the time he's saying it to our white friends and it irks me...an honestly perpetuate a stereotype that is not indicative of who I am. "

See, I would conform to the stereotype and stop hanging around him. A friend respects your space and is sensitive to that which offends you. That person is a waste of your emotional space.
BW should stop feeling this loyal duty to BM. They are not looking out for you, why should you?

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Grata — Wed, 20 May 2009 13:22:35 -0000

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Lady_M — Mon, 18 May 2009 02:55:00 -0000

Yay! I saw the movie, which was great. Now I know what the commenters were speaking about.

I would say that would've been my choice as well. =)

"But, what do you expect? The best way to defend black women is to stop being our main offenders."

Agreed. Its fine if you want to date outside, but please stop tarnishing our name to anyone who will listen. My black guy friend likes to joke around with people and call me an "angry black woman". Most of the time he's saying it to our white friends and it irks me...an honestly perpetuate a stereotype that is not indicative of who I am. I try to et him knoe that it is offensive to me, but he makes me seem like I cannot take a joke and thus being an angry black woman again...

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Lady_M — Sun, 17 May 2009 22:55:00 -0000

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Siditty — Sat, 16 May 2009 11:02:00 -0000

There are many attractive non white women, and there are some white men that once in a while feel attracted to them. Sometimes it is real sexual attraction and sometimes it is just temporary curiosity. Anyway those are the very few exceptions. And even among those exceptions it is usually not for serious long term intent.

I'm looking at ten years of being with my husband. I think that is considered serious and long term, but that is just my opinion.

The common white woman and man are almost always looking for a partner that besides love and sex will be a good parent and give his/her kids good genes and good care. 
 
 Therefore the cases of white men looking for non white women are marginal.

I guess black women can't be good parents? Seriously, do you honestly think that? My sister in law is white and was on meth while pregnant with her 1st child and smoked throughout the whole entire pregnancy of her second. Her and my brother in law are always living with someone as they cannot afford to take care of their family. They can't make rent and their car is about to be repossessed, but they can make on over to Cancun for vacation. They are as white as the driven snow. Not to mention single white women are having babies too, and that is the population who makes up the MAJORITY of welfare cases.

Just think how many opportunities and how easy was it for powerful white man to have non white women in Africa, Asia and everywhere they had control for centuries.

They did, and they fathered children with them, and then many walked away, so again who makes a good parent?

The non white woman for the white man is (even in those few cases) like an unhealthy candy, like a junk food one will take on the way but not as a permanent diet. It may fill a temporary need but it is not healthy for the long run.

I will ask my husband when he plans to leave.

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Siditty — Sat, 16 May 2009 07:02:00 -0000

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Kala77 — Sat, 16 May 2009 06:58:00 -0000

^^^Anon...WTF?????

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Kala77 — Sat, 16 May 2009 02:58:00 -0000

^^^Anon...WTF?????

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Grata — Sat, 16 May 2009 02:54:00 -0000

"The non white woman for the white man is (even in those few cases) like an unhealthy candy, like a junk food one will take on the way but not as a permanent diet. It may fill a temporary need but it is not healthy for the long run."

Oh dear I hope you are only speaking for American whites. You haven't heard of the colored population in South Africa?

And what would you say for Latin America whose indegenous populations have dwindled to be replaced by a mix of people.

And how do you deal with the now confirmed fact that over 70% of African Americans have more European ancestry than Indian.
Still dreaming of a pure race eh? LOL!

You need to relocate because your fantasy doen's exist in America. Even you so called whites are tainted with Black and other blood. And its people usually most uncertain of their purity that obsess about it, "The Hitler complex" I call it. The least Aryan is the one that that pushes the standards, LOL!

Better make sure you've got nothing in your blood. Before you continue on your little campaign.

Granted the numbers are low with BW but how do you explain the high numbers of marriages between White men and Asian women?
I am guessing you define Asians as white.

Dude, you have been overtaken by events. Some by over half a century.

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torgoman — Sat, 16 May 2009 02:14:00 -0000

I think I almost died of bullsh*t poisoning reading that post, Anon.

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Anonymous — Sat, 16 May 2009 00:02:00 -0000

Look,
There are many attractive non white women, and there are some white men that once in a while feel attracted to them. Sometimes it is real sexual attraction and sometimes it is just temporary curiosity.
Anyway those are the very few exceptions.
And even among those exceptions it is usually not for serious long term intent.
It is less common than same sex attractions, maybe even less common than people (from all races) attracted to animals.

The common white woman and man are almost always looking for a partner that besides love and sex will be a good parent and give his/her kids good genes and good care.

Therefore the cases of white men looking for non white women are marginal.

Just think how many opportunities and how easy was it for powerful white man to have non white women in Africa, Asia and everywhere they had control for centuries.

And how many mixed cases there are? Not many, not enough to be noticed.

The non white woman for the white man is (even in those few cases) like an unhealthy candy, like a junk food one will take on the way but not as a permanent diet. It may fill a temporary need but it is not healthy for the long run.

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Grata — Fri, 15 May 2009 22:54:00 -0000

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torgoman — Fri, 15 May 2009 22:14:00 -0000

I think I almost died of bullsh*t poisoning reading that post, Anon.

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Anonymous — Fri, 15 May 2009 20:02:00 -0000

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Grata — Fri, 15 May 2009 01:48:00 -0000

"I guess when Jamie made those jokes about Miley Cyrus, nobody strugged it off and said it was a joke or that he was a comedian. They raised hell.'

That was a classic, BM disrespects a WW and hell breaks loose. BM disrespects the BW and its business as usual.

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Grata — Thu, 14 May 2009 21:48:00 -0000

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dani — Thu, 14 May 2009 16:08:00 -0000

Grata said:

Black women need to choose that which benefits them. If its race then they go for it. But like we have learnt supporting the Black Male's cause is not going to benefit the BW.
If they choose the women's cause then race will become an issue down the line. Black women need to have their own cause because their challenge is unique to only them. White women can't relate, Black men have no interest in the upholding the rights of Black women.You are absolutely correct. I think that out struggle is very unique because we have two oppressions. Being a woman and being Black. When Alice Walker wrote, "The Color Purple" alot of Black men protested that film and the book because it made Black men looks bad. They called her a sell-out to the community. I'm like but isn't it possible that a black woman could have faced oppresion from other black men? It is possible. It is possible that some black men feel that is necessary to feel like a man over a woman particualarly a black woman because of how white men mistreated them? The book definetly has a feminist theme. However, when Black women stand up for themsleves against Black men, we are sell-outs, but it's okay to disrespect us? wow. That's why I said its hard for some black women to choose because they don't want to be outcasted from the black community. So they choose just race even though being a woman is somethnig that affects them. You are right, black men can only understand us from being black. White woman can only understand because we are women. However, being black is harder. Being a woman is harder for them to understand.

Anonymous said:
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ut, here's my issue, i don't see why black men don't understand that when they allow other bm to disrespect us and call us hoes and they want to supersoak us, they're also telling the world that its okay to do that. Then when someone who isn't black (read Don Imus/ Eminem) joins in on the party some of them will get upset.---------
I guess some Black men who do defend black women on some black men disrespectiing their own women is perceived as a coward or a pussy. I just want my people to respect one another period.
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Anonymous said:

Excuse me, when Don Imus made those jokes we had two Sambo's joining in on the fun calling them ugly hoes too. (Stupid Wayan's Bro and D.L ass Hugely) Some black men really need to look in the mirror.Yeah I heard about that. I was not very happy with them agreeing with Imus. You know what's funny, i read the youtube comments and when some black women were saying that he was wrong for what he did, you know what the defense was? He is a comedian. I guess when Jamie made those jokes about Miley Cyrus, nobody strugged it off and said it was a joke or that he was a comedian. They raised hell.

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dani — Thu, 14 May 2009 12:08:00 -0000

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gsutiger2 — Wed, 13 May 2009 21:48:00 -0000

Hello, I see the eHarmony ad as a subtle "think outside the box" message. Plus, they wouldn't advertise this pairing if it wasn't a increasing demographic (I've noticed print ads and posters at malls showing bw and wm holding hands, in wedding garb, and even in bed together for ads. As Sam Jackson says in "Lakeview Terrace" --it's a brave new world..
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I TOTALLY AGREE with this poster! Think outside the freaking box and maybe you will find your "match".