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<rss xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title>Siditty: Angry &amp; Black Since 1976 - Latest Comments in http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/04/my-lesson-in-being-strong-black-woman.html</title><link>http://siditty.disqus.com/</link><description></description><atom:link href="https://siditty.disqus.com/httpsidittyblogspotcom200904my_lesson_in_being_strong_black_womanhtml/latest.rss" rel="self"></atom:link><language>en</language><lastBuildDate>Fri, 08 May 2009 02:54:00 -0000</lastBuildDate><item><title>Re: http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/04/my-lesson-in-being-strong-black-woman.html</title><link>http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/04/my-lesson-in-being-strong-black-woman.html#comment-626596808</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I don't know how I've missed this post..but I know what you're going through...I've been there myself. If you ever need to talk, you know where to find me.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">(fŭng'kē) [blak] [chik]</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 08 May 2009 02:54:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/04/my-lesson-in-being-strong-black-woman.html</title><link>http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/04/my-lesson-in-being-strong-black-woman.html#comment-20971356</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I don't know how I've missed this post..but I know what you're going through...I've been there myself. If you ever need to talk, you know where to find me.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">(fŭng'kē) [blak] [chik]</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 07 May 2009 22:54:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/04/my-lesson-in-being-strong-black-woman.html</title><link>http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/04/my-lesson-in-being-strong-black-woman.html#comment-626596812</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Wow I'm so sorry. Cry all you need to and please speak to a professional as well. You and your husband should take all the time and all the steps through this grief.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">ActsofFaithBlog</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 16 Apr 2009 16:17:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/04/my-lesson-in-being-strong-black-woman.html</title><link>http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/04/my-lesson-in-being-strong-black-woman.html#comment-20971357</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Wow I'm so sorry. Cry all you need to and please speak to a professional as well. You and your husband should take all the time and all the steps through this grief.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">ActsofFaithBlog</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 16 Apr 2009 12:17:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/04/my-lesson-in-being-strong-black-woman.html</title><link>http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/04/my-lesson-in-being-strong-black-woman.html#comment-626596814</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I am so sorry for your loss. You and your husband are in my thoughts.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">k</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 15 Apr 2009 15:10:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/04/my-lesson-in-being-strong-black-woman.html</title><link>http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/04/my-lesson-in-being-strong-black-woman.html#comment-20971358</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I am so sorry for your loss. You and your husband are in my thoughts.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">k</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 15 Apr 2009 11:10:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/04/my-lesson-in-being-strong-black-woman.html</title><link>http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/04/my-lesson-in-being-strong-black-woman.html#comment-626596815</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I was trying to hold back tears as I read that. I can't imagine what you must be going through. No one can tell you how to grieve or not grieve. It's something that you never really get over.  But you are a Mother still and always remember that. She was a gift and you will always remember her as your firstborn even when you go on and have other children.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">FunkyStarkitty50</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 14 Apr 2009 07:17:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/04/my-lesson-in-being-strong-black-woman.html</title><link>http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/04/my-lesson-in-being-strong-black-woman.html#comment-20971359</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I was trying to hold back tears as I read that. I can't imagine what you must be going through. No one can tell you how to grieve or not grieve. It's something that you never really get over.  But you are a Mother still and always remember that. She was a gift and you will always remember her as your firstborn even when you go on and have other children.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">FunkyStarkitty50</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 14 Apr 2009 03:17:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/04/my-lesson-in-being-strong-black-woman.html</title><link>http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/04/my-lesson-in-being-strong-black-woman.html#comment-626596820</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Ihave been offline this past week, so I was not aware of your loss. I know that words can't begin to assuage the feelings you and your husband are experiencing, but please know that even though I don't know you, I wish the best for you and wish you and your husband peace as you both continue to come to terms with that happened.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">HoneeB</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2009 18:14:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/04/my-lesson-in-being-strong-black-woman.html</title><link>http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/04/my-lesson-in-being-strong-black-woman.html#comment-626596816</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Ihave been offline this past week, so I was not aware of your loss. I know that words can't begin to assuage the feelings you and your husband are experiencing, but please know that even though I don't know you, I wish the best for you and wish you and your husband peace as you both continue to come to terms with that happened.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">HoneeB</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2009 18:14:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/04/my-lesson-in-being-strong-black-woman.html</title><link>http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/04/my-lesson-in-being-strong-black-woman.html#comment-20971360</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Ihave been offline this past week, so I was not aware of your loss. I know that words can't begin to assuage the feelings you and your husband are experiencing, but please know that even though I don't know you, I wish the best for you and wish you and your husband peace as you both continue to come to terms with that happened.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">HoneeB</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2009 14:14:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/04/my-lesson-in-being-strong-black-woman.html</title><link>http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/04/my-lesson-in-being-strong-black-woman.html#comment-20971361</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Ihave been offline this past week, so I was not aware of your loss. I know that words can't begin to assuage the feelings you and your husband are experiencing, but please know that even though I don't know you, I wish the best for you and wish you and your husband peace as you both continue to come to terms with that happened.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">HoneeB</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2009 14:14:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/04/my-lesson-in-being-strong-black-woman.html</title><link>http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/04/my-lesson-in-being-strong-black-woman.html#comment-626596822</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Siddity, &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I don't come here as often as I like but was just making the rounds and when I read this post, I just felt your pain. Words seem so inadequate at times like this and you have suffered a great loss. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Screw stereotypes, be gentle with yourself and do whatever you need to do. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I am so sorry for your loss.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">blackgirlinmaine</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2009 00:35:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/04/my-lesson-in-being-strong-black-woman.html</title><link>http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/04/my-lesson-in-being-strong-black-woman.html#comment-20971362</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Siddity, &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I don't come here as often as I like but was just making the rounds and when I read this post, I just felt your pain. Words seem so inadequate at times like this and you have suffered a great loss. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Screw stereotypes, be gentle with yourself and do whatever you need to do. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I am so sorry for your loss.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">blackgirlinmaine</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 12 Apr 2009 20:35:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/04/my-lesson-in-being-strong-black-woman.html</title><link>http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/04/my-lesson-in-being-strong-black-woman.html#comment-626596824</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Siddity - please accept my profound sympathy. I once lost my baby at 10 weeks. It is even harder to go through this at 20 weeks because at that stage you assume all will go well since it is the second trimester. Wish you the best of luck.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Lili ( I had another blog name</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 12 Apr 2009 07:26:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/04/my-lesson-in-being-strong-black-woman.html</title><link>http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/04/my-lesson-in-being-strong-black-woman.html#comment-20971363</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Siddity - please accept my profound sympathy. I once lost my baby at 10 weeks. It is even harder to go through this at 20 weeks because at that stage you assume all will go well since it is the second trimester. Wish you the best of luck.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Lili ( I had another blog name</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 12 Apr 2009 03:26:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/04/my-lesson-in-being-strong-black-woman.html</title><link>http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/04/my-lesson-in-being-strong-black-woman.html#comment-626596827</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your husband.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Austingirl</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 11 Apr 2009 23:05:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/04/my-lesson-in-being-strong-black-woman.html</title><link>http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/04/my-lesson-in-being-strong-black-woman.html#comment-20971364</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your husband.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Austingirl</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 11 Apr 2009 19:05:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/04/my-lesson-in-being-strong-black-woman.html</title><link>http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/04/my-lesson-in-being-strong-black-woman.html#comment-626596831</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Oh Honey I am so very, very sorry. Blessings to you and your husband. Take care of yourselves and know there are many out here who wish you well.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">LD in PDX</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 11 Apr 2009 03:18:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/04/my-lesson-in-being-strong-black-woman.html</title><link>http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/04/my-lesson-in-being-strong-black-woman.html#comment-20971365</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Oh Honey I am so very, very sorry. Blessings to you and your husband. Take care of yourselves and know there are many out here who wish you well.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">LD in PDX</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 10 Apr 2009 23:18:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/04/my-lesson-in-being-strong-black-woman.html</title><link>http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/04/my-lesson-in-being-strong-black-woman.html#comment-626596834</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I am so very sorry for your loss.  I am praying for you and your family.  I'm so sorry.....&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Stealthkitty&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Anonymous</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 10 Apr 2009 17:54:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/04/my-lesson-in-being-strong-black-woman.html</title><link>http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/04/my-lesson-in-being-strong-black-woman.html#comment-20971366</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I am so very sorry for your loss.  I am praying for you and your family.  I'm so sorry.....&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Stealthkitty&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Anonymous</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 10 Apr 2009 13:54:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/04/my-lesson-in-being-strong-black-woman.html</title><link>http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/04/my-lesson-in-being-strong-black-woman.html#comment-626596839</link><description>&lt;p&gt;oh goodness, I am sorry to hear this. I'll be thinking of you.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">SassyHazel</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 10 Apr 2009 06:41:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/04/my-lesson-in-being-strong-black-woman.html</title><link>http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/04/my-lesson-in-being-strong-black-woman.html#comment-626596848</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I am so sorry to learn of your loss.  I'll keep you, your daughter and husband in my prayers.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Anonymous</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 10 Apr 2009 04:17:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/04/my-lesson-in-being-strong-black-woman.html</title><link>http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/04/my-lesson-in-being-strong-black-woman.html#comment-626596845</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I am so sorry to learn of your loss.  I'll keep you, your daughter and husband in my prayers.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Anonymous</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 10 Apr 2009 04:17:00 -0000</pubDate></item></channel></rss>