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freelancepimp . — Fri, 21 Nov 2014 13:18:29 -0000

This is the guy who was butt naked playing the bongos in front of another male right?

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anon — Wed, 11 Nov 2009 02:35:15 -0000

His girfriend is a model!

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Lion-ess — Mon, 03 Aug 2009 01:20:12 -0000

those who find it offensive are thinking and reading into his comment. The question was shit.. but his answered showed his love and admiration for the black woman's figure and who they carry themself

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Lion-ess — Sun, 02 Aug 2009 21:20:12 -0000

those who find it offensive are thinking and reading into his comment. The question was shit.. but his answered showed his love and admiration for the black woman's figure and who they carry themself

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badblackkitty — Mon, 27 Apr 2009 15:05:00 -0000

But I would take it a as a confession/admission (it's funny, but when non-black people say they're into BW, it often sounds like or is treated like a confession of something wrong or weird) of his interest in BW. It sounds like he was admiring us, but more like the way people might admire someone who has a disability and overcomes it, rather than admiring us in a desiring way. If that makes sense. Now Gerard Butler, that's a fellow who likes BW :-)

I agree with you, Anon 6:15. I believe McConaughey was trying to be complimentary as well but per usual with him, it came out wrong. I remember reading some statement about fascism from him years ago and he made it sound like Hitler was only "flawed". He also said something about dictatorships being good. I thought he was high. It was weird because it came across as him not being very articulate about things of substance. I looked at his comment about black woman as kind of the same thing. He didn't say what he meant to say. It doesn't matter though because he sure is sexy.
As for Gerard Butler, I only think he's "ok". I find him to be like a few other white men who prefer black women to date and mess around with but, would never marry one. He's in a class with Chris Noth and Bill Maher (um, EW.). That is the type of white man I would never date but I have to admit, Gerard certainly is nice to look at. I think the wealthier white men who tend to marry black women are the businessmen who are out of the spotlight. Just look at Evia's blog or Sara's blog.

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Anonymous — Mon, 27 Apr 2009 05:02:00 -0000

I really don't understand what "truthbetold," isn't getting. No one gives a flying f*ck who black men fall in love with. There is nothing wrong with loving whoever you love, the problem is these individuals who are abandoning the black community and black women and using non-bw as a scapegoat out of their community and then complaining when they're not accepted into the non-black communities and crying and coming back to the bc for sympathy. That sh*t is tired. Then on top of that not even caring about the bc while you're out frolicking with the people who probably could care less about you, those individuals are the problem and those are the ones we're talking about. For goodness sakes, go and address those people for once and stop harassing us. so stop with your b.s. about bw attacking bm, please.

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Truth B. Told — Mon, 27 Apr 2009 03:14:00 -0000

This is my last response in this thread to Grata et al who think like her.

This is the same old, same old.

- You write nasty stuff about Black men, someone replies and then Black men get accused of hijacking the thread.

- You reply to none of the actual stuff that I wrote, ignoring everything relevant and creating and defeating your own strawmen. Par for the course.

- You are making all sorts of judgements about me, yet you know nothing about me except that I am a Black man. Your failure to treat people like individuals is your vice, not mines.

- You are the one with a problem with your place in the world and with your complexion, not me. You brought it up and then when I offered you a solution, you once again tried to project your nonsense on me. It is not my or anyone else job to make you feel good about yourself, it is yours.

The man reason you don't feel any support is probably more aligned with how nasty an individual you are more than the color your skin. If I were to meet you in "real life" I would completely ignore your presence as you are completely underserving of any attention.

As useless as you see me, trust me, your are exponentially more useless to me and perhaps the other people you meet. After all, I am not the one trying to guilt and shame the other one about "community" nor am I worried about where your place in the World scheme is as much as you seem to be worried about mine.

I now will leave you to stew in your own misery and need for universal acceptance by everyone on the planet and anger towards Black men for not getting it for you.

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Grata — Mon, 27 Apr 2009 02:33:00 -0000

"Black women are free to go to college, work in corporations, buy homes, marry and sleep with who they please, have kids out of wedlock, open and own businesses, etc. Black women are free as everyone else to plan their lives as they please."

And how much of these achievemnets by the BW have to do with the BM?
If it was up to the BM the Black woman would literally be at the back of the bus.

Recently someone on another blog posed an interesting question. She asked, if Michelle Obama looked like Halle Berry or Vanessa Williams, would we have alot more BM out there defending her dignity? Interesting question. Then I couldn't help but wonder, Had Rosa Parks been a dark skinned BW, would she have been treated with the same dignity and would BM have rallied behind her the way they did?

There were other women doing incredible things that didn't get the same attention. I saw a story of some Dark skinned Black girl who went to a whites only Beach in Manhattan Beach, California protesting segregation and she was arrested. Where is her story?

"Black women are going to have to work hard and sacrifice (just like most other people who were not born with trust funds or great inheritance or luck) to get what they want. What else do you want?"

LOL! @ you a BM telling BW to work hard. LMAO. Are you serious?

That advice is more appropriate for BM. Stop using the racism excuse. Even with racism there is not reason you lot should not being doing alot better than you are.

"Why do you insist on victimhood?"

Again that is a question better for BM. But BW requesting the BM's support is victimhood. But giving that support to others is what? Altruism, buying acceptance or an upper step on the social scale? LOL! Geez I truly underestimated how truly useless (I throw it around alot coz it fits perfectly) some of you are.

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Grata — Mon, 27 Apr 2009 02:20:00 -0000

"It is as if some of you Black women didn't want slavery to end for Black men, you just want control to transfer from White men to yourselves."

And the BM apologist says BW oppress BM. The BM is somehow always the victim ?

"Who the hell put you in charge of what "community" someone should be a part of or not? I will spend time wherever I damn well please without your permission."

You can keep knocking on the White man's door forever but you will never be fully accepted. Get used to it already.
I was just thinking how BM tend to forget the existance of racial barriers when it comes to dating and marrying and temporarily consider the world open yet have the nerve to turn around immediately after and claim racism in other areas of life. Selective whinning i'n it. I think society has done enough in pandering to the BM's cause. You guys are free to date who ever you please without the fear of lynching. So get on with it. Racism is over as regards to you.

"I care about the World community."

Except BW right? The dark skinned ones like you already hinted. LOL! How noble.

"Your kind of illogical thinking makes you look like a desperate loser."

I didn't know this was a competition.

"Just because I am unwilling to subjugate my will to you and worship you, you think that makes me ineligble for justice."

Subjugate? LOL! Apparently you know nothing about community building. Incase you are confused, there are people that marry out of their communities but still contribute to the community. Just because you marry out of the community doesn't mean you can't give back to the same community that raised you. BM generally that marry out seem to be in a rush to get out but run back when good old racism hits them. Don't pretend you don't know what I am talking about.

People like you are quick to declare the BC non existent but when you need their support, you manage to find the "non existent" Community.

Like I said enjoy your community hoping.

Subjugate? To who ? Me? Why does that make you sound ball-less?
Honoring your community and taking care of your own is subjugation, but kissing a non black woman's feet is not? LOL! Talk of slavery Part Deux!

"Racism is a HUMAN wrong that should not be tolerated by any fair-minded person. Abusing somebody is a human wrong, expecially if that abuse comes from authority."

I bet that you would agree that standing by while someone is being abused is wrong too. Right?
So BM standing by while BW are being abused is a human wrong? No?

What is amazing about your defense of the BM and his inability to act in defense of the BW is that it is no different from those who hold power but yet look on while minorities are being abused. Interesting parallels.
So if I, as a BW, I am abused by the system and BM who directly or indirectly participates in my abuse, why should I care if the BM is abused? Hm?
He is not my protector my spouse a contributor and is not even there as a Father. What incentive is there for me as a BW to stand up for the BM. ZERO.
Ofcourse there are BW that are doing the necessary but they are a minority. So like in them days when racism was rife, there were a few non racist whites, but they all got labelled the same thing. The same applies to your kind until you start acting collectively reponsibly, I hope BW continue to withdraw their support because they have nothing to gain in the short or long run.

"I am not sure why is it a "Crime against Black women" to notice the existance of other races when they actually do exist."

Dude, Please don't get too dramatic by reducing the abuse of BW to BM noticing other women.
Noticing other women becomes a crime when you start abusing Black women for looking different. And abandoning your children with them. Geez, do I have to spell it out for you or are you in so much denial thinking that the BW in American is not facing grave challenges?

"I "seperated the light from the dark" only as a response to something you wrote. You wrote this:"

You instructed Dark skinned women specifically to uplift their own image. What image is that may I ask? You obviously already have a concept of an image and that didn't come from me. So you showed your true feelings towards dark skinned women, got caught and are now trying to claim it was pulled out of you. Come on now.

"And on top of that you go to your main standby of accusing Black men of wanting to be "breed lighter" just because we refuse to kiss Black women's ass."

Given your attitude towards dark skinned women that you inadvertently showed, its safe for you to breed lighter. I am simply stating what is obviously at the back of the minds of Black men that have such attitudes towards dark skinned women. Just breed lighter.

" A backhanded way of blaming White women for what you fail to do for yourself."

Oh please cut it out with the White women. They are not the only light women on earth. How come you jumped to defend White women? That is your lot's fantasy, that dark skinned women are seething with envy towards WW. LOL! Not so. I have got news for you, I think White women are beautiful in their own right and unlike many, I am not that bothered that they are on the pedestal. This is majority their people, so their community is sensible enough to give them their due respect. I only envy the protection they get form their community. As far as looks are concerned, I could never want myself any other way. So get over yourself. Man you are drunk on some white stuff.

"Again if we are "useless", then why the hell is anyone copying us? Are we to blame for others "mindlessness"?

Here you have established your self as THE MAN.

If you put a rotten tomato next to a good one. Do you later on blame the good one for getting rotten?

White people could also argue that it is established that racism is wrong. Its not their fault that some mindless people continue to practise it. The mindless people are to blame. Blacks should stop making crazy demands that it ends.

"I have one. When I use it I do my best to enjoy the place that I am visiting rather than sit around and whining about what's wrong with it. I would leave well before I start whining."

Typical dellusional BM. America is bigger that you. Also I am not just a visitor. I have the abiltity to be an American as you are. LOL!. I have the same exact equal rights as you do. Yep. God Bless America. I love this country., its ideals and its promise. I have a problem with certain people especially BM. If I critique them, I am criticizing BM. So when did criticizing the BM become criticizing America ? Man your world must be really small.

But even if I returned to my village, I would still criticize your lot and in various media there. So my location really doesn't matter at the end of the day.

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Anonymous — Mon, 27 Apr 2009 00:07:00 -0000

" It is as if some of you Black women didn't want slavery to end for Black men, you just want control to transfer from White men to yourselves.Black women are free to live their lives as they please and they do. Just accept responsibility for the choices you make."
WHAT?!! How dare you?? If anything black men want black women to be their slaves and at their beck and call!! How dare you try and project dbr black male fantasies onto black women, that's your hang up,not ours. DBR black men want black women to be their harem and that's it.

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Anonymous — Sun, 26 Apr 2009 23:15:00 -0000

Agree w/ badblackkitty. SO back Mr. McConaughey. I think his over intent was to be complimentary, and for that I'm like cool. Thanks for saying something nice. Yes it's a flawed compliment (the whole larger package thing is problematic) but I feel like he was trying to say something positive. But I would take it a as a confession/admission (it's funny, but when non-black people say they're into BW, it often sounds like or is treated like a confession of something wrong or weird) of his interest in BW. It sounds like he was admiring us, but more like the way people might admire someone who has a disability and overcomes it, rather than admiring us in a desiring way. If that makes sense. Now Gerard Butler, that's a fellow who likes BW :-)

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Truth B. Told — Sun, 26 Apr 2009 23:14:00 -0000

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badblackkitty — Sun, 26 Apr 2009 21:44:00 -0000

And yet another thread gets hijacked. How did this go from Matthew McConaughey and the debate about black women and coverworthiness to yet another thread about black men? Will the narcissism ever end?

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Anonymous — Sun, 26 Apr 2009 20:07:00 -0000

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badblackkitty — Sun, 26 Apr 2009 17:44:00 -0000

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Truth B. Told — Sun, 26 Apr 2009 12:16:00 -0000

I disagree, the purpose of the civil rights movement was not simply to put some law in the books, the purpose was to foster a sense of equality and to bring people together...

You can only legislate actions, you can't legislate feelings. You can punish someone for burning a cross on someone elses lawn, but you can't punish someone who is happy at the thought of that burning cross. The same person happy about the burning cross will likely being falsely smiling in the face and shaking hands with Black people the next day, but still retain those feelings. You can't make people change what they feel. Hopefully minds will change but I think some form of prejudice will always exist.

You and Rocky and the likes stun me. you particular individuals have a connipition if someone even mentions something negative about the behavior of bm, but i have yet to see any of you go after these black women bashers who have consistently degraded/ threatened and harassed black women for months. We've got black men threatening to kill black women and you care about a little comment someone made about bm not respecting bw and uplifting ww. get a life, why don't you and yours go and do something productive and instead of looking after the interest of the poor,opressed black male, go after these ignorant black males who consistently attack black women, do that for a change or shut up.

First of all, if someone is threating your safety, please contact your local authorities. I am not the police nor do I have their powers or public trust.

Secondly Rocky and I are only two people with opinions. There are many things in the world that we can focus on. The economy, global warming, terrorism,etc. We choose to focus what we focus on. If you don't like it, then it is what it is.

That is my last comment to truthbetold and the like i'm getting tired of their cowardice and lack care/concern for black women. all they think about is defending black men and wont' do the same for the women of the black race, so please just cut the crap already... black women are and have always been more vulnerable than bm and these predators need to start holding these ignorant, damaged black males responsible and stop babying them...

What am I to say to these damaged Black men when Black women keep on giving these men the time of day? Black women hold the power in all they have to do is avoid as best they can the damaged Black men. "Ray-Ray" and "T-Dog" are getting laid consistently by these women, so by their account what they are doing is working. As long as women keep giving it up to men like that, why would they change?

I'm really getting tired of certain bm thinking that just because we don't "own," eachother in the sense that you are legally bind to me, that we don't have a responsibiity to take care of the members of own culture. every culture understand that u need to take care of your own first, wp get it, asian people, hispanic people, everyone seems to get it except bp. Even if you don't marry into that culture, you're still supposed to do your best to support the people of your culture that is how you build up a society. So bm please you're supposed to be our leaders, just cut this nonsense and stop making excuses.

This is all well and good, but the problem is every time a Black man does this is he gets attacked by the very people who claims they want leadership. The point of having a leader is keeping your mouth closed and following the leader, even if you don't agree with his ideas. Not Black People. More like we want someone to front our own ideas and to be responsible for the aftermath if it doesn't work out.

We say we want leaders and then when somone takes that role then too many act like they know more than the leader. Sad but true, if we had a Black Bill Gates, some Blacks would actually stand around and argue with him about software!

When Blacks do get a good leader, we usually ignore him in favor of some more charismatic loud mouth who knows far less than the leader, but is more entertaining. Blacks don't support our good leaders when we do get one. Probably the main reason why Blacks seem leaderless is anyone who would make a great leader because they are intelligent enough to take the role probably is intelligent enough to not even attempt to.

Most "successful" (success measured by lifestyle) Black people look out for themselves and their immediate family mainly (of course some of them contribute to charities too) not because they are naturally selfish, or they hate being Black or they wish they were White, or because they are sellouts. They do it because it is a better alternative than crashing and burning by letting others take them down with them. Sad for me to say, but too many don't know how to succeed and/or want to succeed and don't want others to succeed either.

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Anonymous — Sun, 26 Apr 2009 05:25:00 -0000

I'm really getting tired of certain bm thinking that just because we don't "own," eachother in the sense that you are legally bind to me, that we don't have a responsibiity to take care of the members of own culture. every culture understand that u need to take care of your own first, wp get it, asian people, hispanic people, everyone seems to get it except bp. Even if you don't marry into that culture, you're still supposed to do your best to support the people of your culture that is how you build up a society. So bm please you're supposed to be our leaders, just cut this nonsense and stop making excuses.

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Truth B. Told — Sun, 26 Apr 2009 04:51:00 -0000

Apparently in the 60s BW didn't read the fine print. They were meant to be left sitting at the back of the bus.

How are Black women sitting at the back of the bus? Black women are free to go to college, work in corporations, buy homes, marry and sleep with who they please, have kids out of wedlock, open and own businesses, etc. Black women are free as everyone else to plan their lives as they please.

Of course nothing is guaranteed. Black women are going to have to work hard and sacrifice (just like most other people who were not born with trust funds or great inheritance or luck) to get what they want. What else do you want?

Why do you insist on victimhood?

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Truth B. Told — Sun, 26 Apr 2009 04:39:00 -0000

Before I begin, I want to thank Siditty for posting my previous post and possibly this. I know this is not the focus of your blog, but I cannot allow this to go unchallenged.

Your argument would be interesting if it was fresh. Unfortunately its all been heard from Black male apologists. But I see your point wasn't debate but rather to descend into insults.

Debate? I don't kid myself. You are not interested in anything except bashing Black men. No amount of facts or debate will convince you to do otherwise. I can only expose you for what you are.

Interesting how viscous black men get in defending their right to be with white women. But will look the other way when BW are being attacked or join in the attack themselves.
You will go to great lengths and if possible you would lynch BW if they tried to stop you. You are proving how important that element was part of the struggle.And this what you refuse to get. It is not about being with White women or any other women, it is about living your own damn life. It is as if some of you Black women didn't want slavery to end for Black men, you just want control to transfer from White men to yourselves.

Black women are free to live their lives as they please and they do. Just accept responsibility for the choices you make.

Apparently you are oblivious to tthe role of a male in his community. Well maybe things will look up for you in another community. You are of no use to the Black one. Keep it moving.Who the hell put you in charge of what "community" someone should be a part of or not? I will spend time wherever I damn well please without your permission.

I care about the World community. I know that much of it doesn't care about me equally, but that is in their heart, I follow what is in mine. Like I said there are more than 1 type of people on this planet. Some people get it and some don't.

Great. Then we are officially in post racial America. Racism is officially over. Black men who have the race card as their crutch need to get over it and stop whinning whenever something happens to you and you run back to the BC you refuse to support and expect them to march for you. Keep it moving then you have reached your promised land of endless White women, Don't look back, your blackness may follow you.LOL!

Just don't fall back on your blackness when things don't work out for you out there. Its post racial America. God Bless America, racism is over, we no longer have to hear from your sort. Once again, who the hell put you in charge of everyones Blackness? God is in charge of that, not some know-it-all self-entitled African Negress.

Your kind of illogical thinking makes you look like a desperate loser. Just because I am unwilling to subjugate my will to you and worship you, you think that makes me ineligble for justice.

Just as their is plenty of food yet starvation in the world at the same time, there is love and diversity yet, hate and segregation.

Take your head out of your behind. Racism is a HUMAN wrong that should not be tolerated by any fair-minded person. Abusing somebody is a human wrong, expecially if that abuse comes from authority.

I am not sure why is it a "Crime against Black women" to notice the existance of other races when they actually do exist.

This is the eternal BM defense. They are never to blame. BM can do no wrong according to the likes of you. WOW! I rather admire men that do some wrong to uplift their communities than those that do nothing and instead blame their women. Utter uselessness.

You throw the word "useless" around alot. I forget, what the hell do you do for anybody? Who do you uplift? Do you think the world sits around thinking about your ass and how to make your life better? You better wake up. You are not entitled to a good life just because you popped out of your mommy's womb a certain way.

Spoken like a true useless Black man. Confirming that he separates the light from the dark. Dude, do yourself a favor and breed lighter.

I "seperated the light from the dark" only as a response to something you wrote. You wrote this:

Basically Black men have now shown the world that its okay to insult darker skinned women.

I only mentioned it because you brought it up. Your insecurity is showing itself again. Blaming me for relpying to what you wrote.

Replied to like a true loser, at the mere suggestion of doing something positive for themselves, losers lash out at others. And on top of that you go to your main standby of accusing Black men of wanting to be "breed lighter" just because we refuse to kiss Black women's ass. A backhanded way of blaming White women for what you fail to do for yourself.

I am just pounding the drum on what ailes my community. And yes like you said, I am foreign. If you ever travelled to a foreign Black country you will quickly see how AA culture is spreading there. SO what ever ailes the AA community has potential of spreading else where in the Black world. So I am not only acting for the sake of only AA women and children who bear the brunt of useless BM, I am also protecting my own. See, its about my own people too. I bet you didn't see that.

Again if we are "useless", then why the hell is anyone copying us? Are we to blame for others "mindlessness"?

Get a passport!

I have one. When I use it I do my best to enjoy the place that I am visiting rather than sit around and whining about what's wrong with it. I would leave well before I start whining.