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<rss xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title>Siditty: Angry &amp; Black Since 1976 - Latest Comments in http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/01/bad-boys-why.html</title><link>http://siditty.disqus.com/</link><description></description><atom:link href="https://siditty.disqus.com/httpsidittyblogspotcom200901bad_boys_whyhtml/latest.rss" rel="self"></atom:link><language>en</language><lastBuildDate>Sat, 10 Jan 2009 10:13:00 -0000</lastBuildDate><item><title>Re: http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/01/bad-boys-why.html</title><link>http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/01/bad-boys-why.html#comment-626600645</link><description>&lt;p&gt;There's a difference between a bad boy and someone who displays criminal tendencies.  The appeal of the bad boy has to do with them pushing boundaries and being confident. A bad boy might walk up to and tell you how attractive he finds you but will say something like "bring those pretty lips over here". It's sorta flattering but it's really patronizing. One always imagines that they'd be uninhibited sexually but often they are also indiscriminate. That's no fun! Now give me a man with a like swagger but whom I can have a conversation with and is trustworthy. Communication is the key. That's sexy: being reliable.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">ActsofFaithBlog</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 10 Jan 2009 10:13:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/01/bad-boys-why.html</title><link>http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/01/bad-boys-why.html#comment-20973095</link><description>&lt;p&gt;There's a difference between a bad boy and someone who displays criminal tendencies.  The appeal of the bad boy has to do with them pushing boundaries and being confident. A bad boy might walk up to and tell you how attractive he finds you but will say something like "bring those pretty lips over here". It's sorta flattering but it's really patronizing. One always imagines that they'd be uninhibited sexually but often they are also indiscriminate. That's no fun! Now give me a man with a like swagger but whom I can have a conversation with and is trustworthy. Communication is the key. That's sexy: being reliable.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">ActsofFaithBlog</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 10 Jan 2009 05:13:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/01/bad-boys-why.html</title><link>http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/01/bad-boys-why.html#comment-626600649</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I like the nice boys...who are bad boys in bed ;)&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;January 2, 2009 7:47 PM&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;--------------------&lt;br&gt;Honey, you have never ever lied. Wooooooo Hoooooo.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">simone</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 07 Jan 2009 00:15:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/01/bad-boys-why.html</title><link>http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/01/bad-boys-why.html#comment-626600651</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I am hoping that you and the hubby will have a healthy baby  who is as cute as a middy punanka. That is my term I use for describing cute babies and toddlers. Just think you will soon have a little toddler running around begging for applejuice and baby crackers and watching sesame street. Oooooooh, that is the cutest age.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">simone</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 07 Jan 2009 00:14:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/01/bad-boys-why.html</title><link>http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/01/bad-boys-why.html#comment-626600654</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Your such an Aqiarius siditty. =) I too don't see the attraction to bad boys, give me the shy, mysterious, sexy nerd any day. I'm aqua also and '09 is supposed to be our year so expect good things to come your way this year! &lt;br&gt;As you can see I'm a bit of an astro nerd.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;-------------------------------&lt;br&gt;I so hope you are right about this being the year for Aquarius. I am going to work even harder to make it my year. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;As far as bad boys go. I had an attraction to those types of guys when I was nineteen and twenty, but I also liked clean cut ambitious guys with sweet personalities who were easy to get along with. The thuggish guys I dated were not mean to me, but I knew that I would not want to end up with one in the long run.  I wanted too much and sometimes they (well the two I dated) did not see past the immediate future. I was always thinking long term. Even at nineteen and twenty years old. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;At this point, I would really like a good guy, who is kind, respectful, smart, considerate, hard working,protective and very loving for my mate. It would not hurt if he looked like Gerard Butler.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">simone</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 07 Jan 2009 00:11:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/01/bad-boys-why.html</title><link>http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/01/bad-boys-why.html#comment-20973096</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I like the nice boys...who are bad boys in bed ;)&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;January 2, 2009 7:47 PM&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;--------------------&lt;br&gt;Honey, you have never ever lied. Wooooooo Hoooooo.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">simone</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 06 Jan 2009 19:15:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/01/bad-boys-why.html</title><link>http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/01/bad-boys-why.html#comment-20973097</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I am hoping that you and the hubby will have a healthy baby  who is as cute as a middy punanka. That is my term I use for describing cute babies and toddlers. Just think you will soon have a little toddler running around begging for applejuice and baby crackers and watching sesame street. Oooooooh, that is the cutest age.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">simone</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 06 Jan 2009 19:14:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/01/bad-boys-why.html</title><link>http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/01/bad-boys-why.html#comment-20973098</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Your such an Aqiarius siditty. =) I too don't see the attraction to bad boys, give me the shy, mysterious, sexy nerd any day. I'm aqua also and '09 is supposed to be our year so expect good things to come your way this year! &lt;br&gt;As you can see I'm a bit of an astro nerd.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;-------------------------------&lt;br&gt;I so hope you are right about this being the year for Aquarius. I am going to work even harder to make it my year. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;As far as bad boys go. I had an attraction to those types of guys when I was nineteen and twenty, but I also liked clean cut ambitious guys with sweet personalities who were easy to get along with. The thuggish guys I dated were not mean to me, but I knew that I would not want to end up with one in the long run.  I wanted too much and sometimes they (well the two I dated) did not see past the immediate future. I was always thinking long term. Even at nineteen and twenty years old. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;At this point, I would really like a good guy, who is kind, respectful, smart, considerate, hard working,protective and very loving for my mate. It would not hurt if he looked like Gerard Butler.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">simone</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 06 Jan 2009 19:11:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/01/bad-boys-why.html</title><link>http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/01/bad-boys-why.html#comment-626600656</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Suesue,&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I will cry if I have twins.  I can't afford one, much less two.  Think of how much childcare would be!!!!&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Siditty</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 06 Jan 2009 10:40:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/01/bad-boys-why.html</title><link>http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/01/bad-boys-why.html#comment-626600659</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Thanks you guys for the congrats.  I am only about 9 weeks in.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Siditty</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 06 Jan 2009 10:39:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/01/bad-boys-why.html</title><link>http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/01/bad-boys-why.html#comment-20973099</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Suesue,&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I will cry if I have twins.  I can't afford one, much less two.  Think of how much childcare would be!!!!&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Siditty</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 06 Jan 2009 05:40:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/01/bad-boys-why.html</title><link>http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/01/bad-boys-why.html#comment-20973100</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Thanks you guys for the congrats.  I am only about 9 weeks in.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Siditty</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 06 Jan 2009 05:39:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/01/bad-boys-why.html</title><link>http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/01/bad-boys-why.html#comment-626600660</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I guess it's the thrill of being on the edge. You never know what to expect. Women think it's sexy and exciting or "Forbidden". My first "Bad Boy" was funny, good-looking and he had an "edge" meaning he was always getting in fights or looking for fights. There was constant drama and in spite of him saying that he loved me, his actions proved otherwise and I couldn't trust him anymore. There was too much going on with him and I never knew from one day to the next if he was going to be calling me from jail or the hospital. I guess as you get older, you appreciate the nice guy and want to settle down into a drama-free life.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">FunkyStarkitty50</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 05 Jan 2009 04:28:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/01/bad-boys-why.html</title><link>http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/01/bad-boys-why.html#comment-20973101</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I guess it's the thrill of being on the edge. You never know what to expect. Women think it's sexy and exciting or "Forbidden". My first "Bad Boy" was funny, good-looking and he had an "edge" meaning he was always getting in fights or looking for fights. There was constant drama and in spite of him saying that he loved me, his actions proved otherwise and I couldn't trust him anymore. There was too much going on with him and I never knew from one day to the next if he was going to be calling me from jail or the hospital. I guess as you get older, you appreciate the nice guy and want to settle down into a drama-free life.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">FunkyStarkitty50</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 04 Jan 2009 23:28:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/01/bad-boys-why.html</title><link>http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/01/bad-boys-why.html#comment-626600662</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Congratulations Sid,&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I wish you a very healthy baby.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Kat</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 04 Jan 2009 14:29:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/01/bad-boys-why.html</title><link>http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/01/bad-boys-why.html#comment-626600663</link><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;OH MY GOD! Siditty are you preggers?????? Congrats! If I am wrong, please don't publish this comment lol&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;i&gt;Yep. I have been given the opportunity to mess up a child with my warped thinking, and overpopulate the earth causing environmental devastation :)&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;OMG!!!! Congratulations Sid!!!! I'm so happy for you and the hub!!!! Wishing you a very healthy pregnancy and birth!!!!! So so so excited for you :) You'll be awesome parents.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">SOILA.</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 04 Jan 2009 11:30:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/01/bad-boys-why.html</title><link>http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/01/bad-boys-why.html#comment-20973102</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Congratulations Sid,&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I wish you a very healthy baby.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Kat</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 04 Jan 2009 09:29:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/01/bad-boys-why.html</title><link>http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/01/bad-boys-why.html#comment-626600664</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I am soooooo excited for you Sid!  At the same time, I noticed you mentioned morning sickness and I feel so bad for you girl.  That morning sickness will make you want to jump off a building.  You know what helped with mine?  Celestial Seasonings tea with roobois.  I think it's the african blend.  It's got Chai, Star Anise, Roobois and something else.  The packaging is reddish.  Girl, drinking that was a must.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Seattle Slim</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 04 Jan 2009 07:43:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/01/bad-boys-why.html</title><link>http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/01/bad-boys-why.html#comment-20973103</link><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;OH MY GOD! Siditty are you preggers?????? Congrats! If I am wrong, please don't publish this comment lol&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;i&gt;Yep. I have been given the opportunity to mess up a child with my warped thinking, and overpopulate the earth causing environmental devastation :)&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;OMG!!!! Congratulations Sid!!!! I'm so happy for you and the hub!!!! Wishing you a very healthy pregnancy and birth!!!!! So so so excited for you :) You'll be awesome parents.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">SOILA.</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 04 Jan 2009 06:30:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/01/bad-boys-why.html</title><link>http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/01/bad-boys-why.html#comment-626600666</link><description>&lt;p&gt;aww you're going to be a mommy. congratulations to you and your husband, have a pleasant pregnancy and a healthy baby. :)&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">MaidenTiana</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 04 Jan 2009 06:18:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/01/bad-boys-why.html</title><link>http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/01/bad-boys-why.html#comment-626600668</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I'm so happy for you...you have no idea...i've been walking around thinking about babies...i love babies !!! ....You are going to have a baby...maybe BABIES ! YOU MIGHT GET TWINS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Suesue</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 04 Jan 2009 04:42:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/01/bad-boys-why.html</title><link>http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/01/bad-boys-why.html#comment-20973104</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I am soooooo excited for you Sid!  At the same time, I noticed you mentioned morning sickness and I feel so bad for you girl.  That morning sickness will make you want to jump off a building.  You know what helped with mine?  Celestial Seasonings tea with roobois.  I think it's the african blend.  It's got Chai, Star Anise, Roobois and something else.  The packaging is reddish.  Girl, drinking that was a must.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Seattle Slim</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 04 Jan 2009 02:43:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/01/bad-boys-why.html</title><link>http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/01/bad-boys-why.html#comment-626600670</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Congs Sid,&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;WOW!!!!!&lt;br&gt;How far in are you?&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Grata</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 04 Jan 2009 02:33:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/01/bad-boys-why.html</title><link>http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/01/bad-boys-why.html#comment-626600673</link><description>&lt;p&gt;You're pregnant ? AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH &lt;br&gt;:-D YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Suesue</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 04 Jan 2009 02:16:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/01/bad-boys-why.html</title><link>http://siditty.blogspot.com/2009/01/bad-boys-why.html#comment-20973106</link><description>&lt;p&gt;aww you're going to be a mommy. congratulations to you and your husband, have a pleasant pregnancy and a healthy baby. :)&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">MaidenTiana</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 04 Jan 2009 01:18:00 -0000</pubDate></item></channel></rss>