Well, I think this makes for very bad advertisment for black women, though it's not the fault of black women. Allot of people who are not black and don't have much insight to this situation see this kind of thing and accept that there must be something wrong with black women. I mean black men don't want their own women so why should anybody else?
Why you would want to do something like this to women of your own race, regardless of wanting to date them or not is beyond me. Don't these guys have black mothers? I disagree with these tactics no matter who the race, that's a big reason why I speak out against scum bags like Harry Potter and his blog.
Black women need to really nip this kind of thing in the bud and so do well meaning black men, frankly it's destructive and just basically wrong on every level. However, there is no need to take it to an extreme either and start launching a campaign against black men.
SOILA.
· 1 year ago
As much as he is entitled to his opinion, he's a pathetic being to me.
His poison may be another man's meat and even though it may seem hard for him and some men to believe this, there are men who appreciate the "strong, independent, BW" that he speaks so lowly of.
Siditty
· 1 year ago
Yes Anon, that is what I meant :) I fixed it.
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Well, I think this makes for very bad advertisment for black women, though it's not the fault of black women. Allot of people who are not black and don't have much insight to this situation see this kind of thing and accept that there must be something wrong with black women.
That is what makes it so bad to me, at least just say I like white women and leave it at that, why degrade and insult black women?
Black women in this society are so screwed, where can we move to be appreciated?
Why you would want to do something like this to women of your own race, regardless of wanting to date them or not is beyond me. Don't these guys have black mothers? I disagree with these tactics no matter who the race, that's a big reason why I speak out against scum bags like Harry Potter and his blog.
I still don't understand the mentality. There is no way I can dislike all or most black men. It isn't fair to make the assessment they are all like this guy, much like all black women are not like the women he describes.
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His poison may be another man's meat and even though it may seem hard for him and some men to believe this, there are men who appreciate the "strong, independent, BW" that he speaks so lowly of.
Very true, I just wish more of these men would speak up.
sky
· 1 year ago
the guy(SWP) is an idiot. i don't even click on his videos. im starting to see wm, coming out on youtube and calling these dudes out...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q9iK-mjhPAw
i ain't worried about those who buy into his bulsh*t, i get far to many compliments from men of different races to even give a damn.i hold my head high!
sky
· 1 year ago
another thing you might want to check out...exposing SWP
don't worry about this pathetic, temper tantrum fool!
SuperJV
· 1 year ago
yeah, I couldn't get past the first 2 min. I mean, this is just some old fashioned chauvinism, apart from anything else. Attach a some bad stereotypes to a certain race of women and it gets even more lovely.
yeah, like women should care about this guy's definition of femininity.
I tell ya, I get mad at feminism sometimes, but then you hear S**t like this, and you know why we still need the feminists. In a war with this guy, I'd side with them.
it's really just pathetic above all else.
Kat
· 1 year ago
OH NO!!! That's sargeant williepete.
He makes a whole bunch of videos all over youtube bashing black women and says darker skinned black women have more masculine features than light skin women. He's an idiot. He got his first account closed by some black folks fighting back and now he proceeded to make a new account to continue spewing his vile.
Aphrodite
· 1 year ago
He is a racial misogynist.
Plain and simple.
I don't think that any sane non black guy is going to take a DBRBM like him seriously.
There is no difference between him and a guy in the KKK hood.
SuperJV
· 1 year ago
siditty, this hateful, ugly nonsense is not worthy of being posted on your blog.
this guy does not deserve any attention.
Anonymous
· 1 year ago
So sad. In his other account he had over four hundred videos dedicated to bashing black women and in most of those videos he did so while placing white women on a pedestal. He also made a vid about white men and black women, he claimed that black women "show off" their white men, go figure.
Kala777
· 1 year ago
I think men of his ilk are just the worst. Even more horrible then white racists who wear hoods. The main thing that I find to most problematic with some of his disgusting videos is that he claims to want to "help" black women. I really want to kick him where the sun don't shine!! LOL.
The saddest thing about what he and many other pathetic black men say is that there are BLACK WOMEN who have acutally have the audacity to support him. Talk about drinking the koo-laid.
For some reason, I did have a conversation with this idiot and tried to reason with him. The only thing he had to offer was the same "black mans burden" BS.
I hope to god this man does not have to ability to have children. Who knows what kind of hate he will pass down to his children.
I think its important for black women to stay away from this crap and know that there are people that value them. I am never going to let some self hating, wanna be white idiot put me down.
Mr. Noface
· 1 year ago
"What scares me most is that if black men feel this way about black women, what do other races of guys think?"
You shouldn't be scared, because most black men do not feel that way about black women. This dude just sounds like a bitter knucklehead with issues. It is as if you are so successful that you intimidate him, then you are not feminine enough for his tastes. That is of course complete garbage.
Anonymous
· 1 year ago
Love your site and opinions agree with most of what you say as well as the classical one .It seems as though bm and now bw are ashamed at being attracted to other races and need to attack their own opposite sex same race to validate their attractions .
You like white men and it's no skin off bm 's back ,that's the way it should be .This guy should say I like ww and leave it at that bw are nice but not for me .....take care wish your husband the best
Siditty
· 1 year ago
the guy(SWP) is an idiot. i don't even click on his videos. im starting to see wm, coming out on youtube and calling these dudes out... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q9iK-mjhPAw i ain't worried about those who buy into his bulsh*t, i get far to many compliments from men of different races to even give a damn.i hold my head high!
Sky,
I agree, some guy started an account with the sole purpose of flagging anti-bw videos, and they keep on top of SWP.
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yeah, I couldn't get past the first 2 min. I mean, this is just some old fashioned chauvinism, apart from anything else. Attach a some bad stereotypes to a certain race of women and it gets even more lovely. yeah, like women should care about this guy's definition of femininity. I tell ya, I get mad at feminism sometimes, but then you hear S**t like this, and you know why we still need the feminists. In a war with this guy, I'd side with them.
It is hard to listen to nonsense, but it just shocks me as this guy is popular, and the amount of black women who in all other aspects seem to have common sense who rally behind his message, even if it is a bit rough. In their minds it is the only way a black woman can listen. I guess I missed the memo.
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He makes a whole bunch of videos all over youtube bashing black women and says darker skinned black women have more masculine features than light skin women. He's an idiot. He got his first account closed by some black folks fighting back and now he proceeded to make a new account to continue spewing his vile.
Exactly, and how is saying darker skinned women are masculine is empowering for the black community in what way?
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I don't think that any sane non black guy is going to take a DBRBM like him seriously. There is no difference between him and a guy in the KKK hood.
Very true, he might as well join the KKK, oops they won't let him because he is black. He probably blames his mother for his blackness.
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siditty, this hateful, ugly nonsense is not worthy of being posted on your blog. this guy does not deserve any attention.
He doesn't and I contemplated taking this post down as he shouldn't be worth anyone's time.
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For some reason, I did have a conversation with this idiot and tried to reason with him. The only thing he had to offer was the same "black mans burden" BS.
Do black women have no burden? Oh yeah we do, it is black men like him that are a burden.
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You shouldn't be scared, because most black men do not feel that way about black women. This dude just sounds like a bitter knucklehead with issues. It is as if you are so successful that you intimidate him, then you are not feminine enough for his tastes. That is of course complete garbage.
You are right, a good black man doesn't get intimidated by a good woman just because she is successful.
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You like white men and it's no skin off bm 's back ,that's the way it should be .This guy should say I like ww and leave it at that bw are nice but not for me .....take care wish your husband the best
I'v never understood why I have to hate bm to date wm, much like I don't understand his need to insult and degrade black women on a regular basis, and then disguise it as help.
classical one
· 1 year ago
He doesn't and I contemplated taking this post down as he shouldn't be worth anyone's time.
You should leave this up as a reminder because unfortunately this guy is not the only person doing this type of thing.
Dream
· 1 year ago
I could put up with 30 seconds of that. Excuses, excuses.
starkitty50
· 1 year ago
I've heard of this willipete and they sound like they have issues with Black women. Unfortunately, he has a fan club who agrees with him and I've seen them spew their venom on supposedly "Black" message boards. You cannot change how someone sees you when they are looking through the lens of ignorance and stereotypes. It can be disheartening to get backlash from "your own", but it sounds like this guy is threatened by Black women, so his response is to tear Black women down and say negative things. There are men who love and appreciate Black women, so this guy is not the majority, thankfully.
Beautifully.Conjured.Up
· 1 year ago
Honestly, comments and thoughts like his aren't even worth my entertainment or worth my mental space, therefor I didn't listen to the clip.
I've heard of comments like his from everyday Black men, and I have to admit, it used to bother me. I guess it bothered me because at that point in my life, I felt unsure of myself, and I felt as though I needed to be validated by a Black man. Not only have I gotten over that insecurity, but I find myself more in tune with positive ways, lifestyles, and people...including men.
In closing, eff what this fool has to say. If you're sure of yourself, it won't matter. Dude can kiss what I twist and I ain't talking about my wrist.
ishtastic
· 1 year ago
Didn't watch the clip b/c I didn't want to start my day off on a bad note. It would be like watching X or Rosewood before going to work (a company of 250 people; only 10 Black) in the morning. There would be plenty of spontaneous cuss-outs and beatdowns, and who really wants that when it's so close to Friday???
Jack asses like that LOVE the invention of Youtube b/c they can anonymously spew ignorance and hatred w/o any consequences. I dare this ass crack to post his real name or address, or to invite 'the masses' to one of his I Hate Black Women meetings. But why would we expect him to be a real man? That's too much to ask.
I was discussing my post-divorce future w/my shrink about 2 months ago and bitching about the possibility of being single for the rest of my life b/c Black women are "the lowest on the totem pole", passed up by every other man on the planet, even their own. I'm getting over that. But shit holes like the Willie Lynch Frankenstein in that video make it hard some days.
When is somebody gonna start a I Love Black Women web site or fan club where Black, White, Asian, Latin men can worship us? Any volunteers? Can my pic be on the front page? Get back at me.
'till next time...
Anonymous
· 1 year ago
I think if you look past the race Issue. You will find that woman are woman and men are men.
Their are Strong, Weak, Beautyfull ugly woman or men in all races. Get over it. Lets move on This is a wastefull way to spend time and money. People perpetuate race Issues for their own purpose. God gave us all a brain it is sin to waste it.
White and reasonable since 1965
Boom
· 1 year ago
I think if you look past the race Issue. You will find that woman are woman and men are men.
Their are Strong, Weak, Beautyfull ugly woman or men in all races. Get over it.
Men like him are an issue for Black women. How dare you sit on your oblivious white ass and try to minimize our problems. You know NOTHING about what it's like to be a Black American woman.
Suesue
· 1 year ago
OMG, i love that moving Prince picture :-O you put up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Classical one said: Don't these guys have black mothers? That's like the best argument !
Felicity
· 1 year ago
Siditty, when it comes to black women, dammed if you do and dammed if you don't. If you read throughout History, Zapporah, Queen of Sheba, Cleopatra, Dido, coming up to Josephine Baker, she had over 1000 prospals a day, Pearl Bailey, Dinah Washington, she had 10 husbands, Beyonce, Sanaa Lathan, my mother are or the dead ones including my mother were feminine women, because of our slavery history, many of us could not afford to be, now a lot of us are free, earning money and there still complaints, I get very sick of the constant bashing of bm against bw, they are too loud, too aggressive, too manish too whatever. BW have to get on with their lives and leave these losers alone, what matters is what you think of yourself not what others think of you, if you love yourself, others will love you. If the man is not attracted to black women fine, who cares, but don't make an excuse that bw are not feminine, because they are plenty are, why are the nail industry, beauty palour, hair shops are making big money. Siditty, these men are useless and bw can always get wm, if they can't get on in USA, they can always travel and they will be plenty of men fighting, yes fighting over them. I know this is your blog, when but these people open their mouths, nothing positive comes out of them, just a lot of negative rubbish and something we should not be listening to, because he has nothing of importance to add.
Anonymous
· 1 year ago
The only men who agree with this guy's propaganda are those who are as insecure & self-hating as he is & what self-loving woman wants to be involved with that type of person. Healthy men of all races see his type as a joke, a whiny pathetic wuss[?]. They are aware that all his mysogynistic racism is a cover for the fact that he can't satisfy ANY woman intellectually or intimately. I'm certain that women of any hue who attempt to spend time with him end up running for the hills. He's a laughing stock--just ask your husband.*
*patsgirl (I have NO interest in watching the clip or acknowledging this guy's existence in any way)
Kamia is the Lost Monster
· 1 year ago
Whoever said racial misogynist said it all. This guy is quite pathetic. He is just one of those guys who can't handle a woman doing better than himself. He needs to be able to overmasculinize himself by overfeminizing a woman. Sad.
Grata
· 1 year ago
I suspect this is unique to Black American men. Black men elsewhere too have colorism issues as regards to dating but I first saw this kind of nonsense out here. West Indian men in the UK too marry white women alot but I never heard them disrespect their own women as AA men do. I really don't get this one.
Who in their right mind ever does this? I think it shows the levels of sickness as a result of this nation's history. Yes, they are individuals and make these choices but this level of self hate did not happen over night.
There are many cultures were women are not "feminine". In fact in my own, physically, I am more feminine that the norm. But these women are still married by their men and even those men that have issues with the aggressiveness of their women don't stoop to this level.
German and Swiss women are not exactly know for their "femininity". Infact the males from these countries take issues with that and are intermarrying with Asians alot. But they don't go out and publically assault them the way Black men out here do.
It has to be the useless black men that are out there abusing their own women. As for the men that don't defend black womanhood, they are just as useless. And they wonder why in this society they will always be looked down upon. If you can't defend you women and take care of your children, you have no use and you deserve whatever calamity that comes your way.
laromana
· 1 year ago
Grata, your observation that it's mostly Black American men who tend to debase,disrespect, and abuse BW is right on point. This damaged, self hating male is the poster boy for the type of Black American "man" who needs to be permanently rejected by ALL BW (and non-BW). A male who would stoop to trash the humanity and dignity of the women who most resemble his grandmother, mother, aunt, or sister (instead of DEFENDING and PROVIDING for them) is not a real MAN and deserves nothing but contempt.
Gloryus
· 1 year ago
Thanks for posting that link, Sky. Im actually a commenter on that video hehe. Anyway, talking about this SWP guy is quite tiring. He has some issues of his own.... feelings of insecurity and inferiority, around and towards black women. He is completely OBSESSED with black women and what they do. Today alone he has uploaded over 2 dozen videos that most likely carry the same message of hate. If he wants to date white or latin women, that's his own choice.... I honestly dont have a problem with that. What I do have a problem with however is when he gives the impression that black women are inferior. I cant stand him and I dont watch his videos because they dont make any sense to me. He's also one of those hypocrites that will jump at using one of his negative tactics to discourage black women from dating interracially.
sky
· 1 year ago
hey gloryus, yes ive seen you there. i plan to support his vids as much as i can. i c wm are slowly coming out of the woodwork on YT.
anyway i think this SWP got his YT suspended, if it is at all true. it may be the last of him *crosses fingers* i don't see his videos listed up on YT so maybe it actually happened.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XFqg1Q7Sg5Q
JamDown
· 1 year ago
Siddity, I know that you are not surprised by this dude's comments. There are LOADS of Black men out there - especially on the internet - who denigrate Black women with gusto. There's a Black man who wrote a book called "Messy Black women" where he tears down Black women to explain why he only dates White women.
This is common, not surprising, and something that Black women should care less about. Black women can date whoever they want also, so let Black men do their thing.
I'm blessed to live in Maryland, be married to wornderful Black men, and see loads of beautiful Black couples at church and in the community. Don't know any of these bitter Black men personally, but I know that they are out there.
Gloryus
· 1 year ago
@ Sky... here is his new account:
http://www.youtube.com/user/TheSargeWP
Different name, same mentality.
sky
· 1 year ago
jamdown. hey i live in MD as well. in my area (the mall every loves,hint) i see IRR couples there all the time especially bw/wm. please im not worried about these men who date out. and trash talk us. they just look more like idiots.
infact at my school i bring up the converstation whenever i can and tell these women to think outside the box. they may not do it now, but believe they are thinking about it. that's how i started. until the light went on.
these dudes only look like jokes, cuz in the end they still have a responsibility as man. just check out sara's blog on bm/ww and children. even when they have children w/ these women they still leave them. don't think the grass is greener on the other side. they want to feel like men and tell women what to do. i hear all the time from some of my ww friends who were treated no differently from bw. that's why i still just dont give a sh*t when i c bm/ww.
sky
· 1 year ago
thanks gloryus, i figured he did that. the man is obessed with something he doesn't even like. i don't get it. i truly believe he lives with his mama in her basement because no one truly who has a job and responsiblities has time on their hands to make rants on black women. except this idiot. however im seeing bm coming on YT w/ videos agaisnt his, their calling him out.
but im interested in those types of vidoes. im more interested in seeing more bw and wm express their attration towards each other.
let these dudes fight amongst themselves.
Kat
· 1 year ago
Malcolm X excerpt titled Who taught you to hate yourself?
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Why you would want to do something like this to women of your own race, regardless of wanting to date them or not is beyond me. Don't these guys have black mothers? I disagree with these tactics no matter who the race, that's a big reason why I speak out against scum bags like Harry Potter and his blog.
Black women need to really nip this kind of thing in the bud and so do well meaning black men, frankly it's destructive and just basically wrong on every level. However, there is no need to take it to an extreme either and start launching a campaign against black men.
His poison may be another man's meat and even though it may seem hard for him and some men to believe this, there are men who appreciate the "strong, independent, BW" that he speaks so lowly of.
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Well, I think this makes for very bad advertisment for black women, though it's not the fault of black women. Allot of people who are not black and don't have much insight to this situation see this kind of thing and accept that there must be something wrong with black women.
That is what makes it so bad to me, at least just say I like white women and leave it at that, why degrade and insult black women?
Black women in this society are so screwed, where can we move to be appreciated?
Why you would want to do something like this to women of your own race, regardless of wanting to date them or not is beyond me. Don't these guys have black mothers? I disagree with these tactics no matter who the race, that's a big reason why I speak out against scum bags like Harry Potter and his blog.
I still don't understand the mentality. There is no way I can dislike all or most black men. It isn't fair to make the assessment they are all like this guy, much like all black women are not like the women he describes.
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His poison may be another man's meat and even though it may seem hard for him and some men to believe this, there are men who appreciate the "strong, independent, BW" that he speaks so lowly of.
Very true, I just wish more of these men would speak up.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q9iK-mjhPAw
i ain't worried about those who buy into his bulsh*t, i get far to many compliments from men of different races to even give a damn.i hold my head high!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9QNdrjl5r-k&feature=related
don't worry about this pathetic, temper tantrum fool!
yeah, like women should care about this guy's definition of femininity.
I tell ya, I get mad at feminism sometimes, but then you hear S**t like this, and you know why we still need the feminists. In a war with this guy, I'd side with them.
it's really just pathetic above all else.
He makes a whole bunch of videos all over youtube bashing black women and says darker skinned black women have more masculine features than light skin women. He's an idiot. He got his first account closed by some black folks fighting back and now he proceeded to make a new account to continue spewing his vile.
Plain and simple.
I don't think that any sane non black guy is going to take a DBRBM like him seriously.
There is no difference between him and a guy in the KKK hood.
this guy does not deserve any attention.
The saddest thing about what he and many other pathetic black men say is that there are BLACK WOMEN who have acutally have the audacity to support him. Talk about drinking the koo-laid.
For some reason, I did have a conversation with this idiot and tried to reason with him. The only thing he had to offer was the same "black mans burden" BS.
I hope to god this man does not have to ability to have children. Who knows what kind of hate he will pass down to his children.
I think its important for black women to stay away from this crap and know that there are people that value them. I am never going to let some self hating, wanna be white idiot put me down.
You shouldn't be scared, because most black men do not feel that way about black women. This dude just sounds like a bitter knucklehead with issues. It is as if you are so successful that you intimidate him, then you are not feminine enough for his tastes. That is of course complete garbage.
You like white men and it's no skin off bm 's back ,that's the way it should be .This guy should say I like ww and leave it at that bw are nice but not for me .....take care wish your husband the best
Sky,
I agree, some guy started an account with the sole purpose of flagging anti-bw videos, and they keep on top of SWP.
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yeah, I couldn't get past the first 2 min. I mean, this is just some old fashioned chauvinism, apart from anything else. Attach a some bad stereotypes to a certain race of women and it gets even more lovely. yeah, like women should care about this guy's definition of femininity. I tell ya, I get mad at feminism sometimes, but then you hear S**t like this, and you know why we still need the feminists. In a war with this guy, I'd side with them.
It is hard to listen to nonsense, but it just shocks me as this guy is popular, and the amount of black women who in all other aspects seem to have common sense who rally behind his message, even if it is a bit rough. In their minds it is the only way a black woman can listen. I guess I missed the memo.
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He makes a whole bunch of videos all over youtube bashing black women and says darker skinned black women have more masculine features than light skin women. He's an idiot. He got his first account closed by some black folks fighting back and now he proceeded to make a new account to continue spewing his vile.
Exactly, and how is saying darker skinned women are masculine is empowering for the black community in what way?
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I don't think that any sane non black guy is going to take a DBRBM like him seriously. There is no difference between him and a guy in the KKK hood.
Very true, he might as well join the KKK, oops they won't let him because he is black. He probably blames his mother for his blackness.
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siditty, this hateful, ugly nonsense is not worthy of being posted on your blog. this guy does not deserve any attention.
He doesn't and I contemplated taking this post down as he shouldn't be worth anyone's time.
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For some reason, I did have a conversation with this idiot and tried to reason with him. The only thing he had to offer was the same "black mans burden" BS.
Do black women have no burden? Oh yeah we do, it is black men like him that are a burden.
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You shouldn't be scared, because most black men do not feel that way about black women. This dude just sounds like a bitter knucklehead with issues. It is as if you are so successful that you intimidate him, then you are not feminine enough for his tastes. That is of course complete garbage.
You are right, a good black man doesn't get intimidated by a good woman just because she is successful.
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You like white men and it's no skin off bm 's back ,that's the way it should be .This guy should say I like ww and leave it at that bw are nice but not for me .....take care wish your husband the best
I'v never understood why I have to hate bm to date wm, much like I don't understand his need to insult and degrade black women on a regular basis, and then disguise it as help.
You should leave this up as a reminder because unfortunately this guy is not the only person doing this type of thing.
I've heard of comments like his from everyday Black men, and I have to admit, it used to bother me. I guess it bothered me because at that point in my life, I felt unsure of myself, and I felt as though I needed to be validated by a Black man. Not only have I gotten over that insecurity, but I find myself more in tune with positive ways, lifestyles, and people...including men.
In closing, eff what this fool has to say. If you're sure of yourself, it won't matter. Dude can kiss what I twist and I ain't talking about my wrist.
Jack asses like that LOVE the invention of Youtube b/c they can anonymously spew ignorance and hatred w/o any consequences. I dare this ass crack to post his real name or address, or to invite 'the masses' to one of his I Hate Black Women meetings. But why would we expect him to be a real man? That's too much to ask.
I was discussing my post-divorce future w/my shrink about 2 months ago and bitching about the possibility of being single for the rest of my life b/c Black women are "the lowest on the totem pole", passed up by every other man on the planet, even their own. I'm getting over that. But shit holes like the Willie Lynch Frankenstein in that video make it hard some days.
When is somebody gonna start a I Love Black Women web site or fan club where Black, White, Asian, Latin men can worship us? Any volunteers? Can my pic be on the front page? Get back at me.
'till next time...
Their are Strong, Weak, Beautyfull ugly woman or men in all races. Get over it. Lets move on This is a wastefull way to spend time and money. People perpetuate race Issues for their own purpose. God gave us all a brain it is sin to waste it.
White and reasonable since 1965
Their are Strong, Weak, Beautyfull ugly woman or men in all races. Get over it.
Men like him are an issue for Black women. How dare you sit on your oblivious white ass and try to minimize our problems. You know NOTHING about what it's like to be a Black American woman.
Classical one said: Don't these guys have black mothers?
That's like the best argument !
Healthy men of all races see his type as a joke, a whiny pathetic wuss[?]. They are aware that all his mysogynistic racism is a cover for the fact that he can't satisfy ANY woman intellectually or intimately. I'm certain that women of any hue who attempt to spend time with him end up running for the hills. He's a laughing stock--just ask your husband.*
*patsgirl
(I have NO interest in watching the clip or acknowledging this guy's existence in any way)
West Indian men in the UK too marry white women alot but I never heard them disrespect their own women as AA men do. I really don't get this one.
Who in their right mind ever does this? I think it shows the levels of sickness as a result of this nation's history.
Yes, they are individuals and make these choices but this level of self hate did not happen over night.
There are many cultures were women are not "feminine". In fact in my own, physically, I am more feminine that the norm. But these women are still married by their men and even those men that have issues with the aggressiveness of their women don't stoop to this level.
German and Swiss women are not exactly know for their "femininity". Infact the males from these countries take issues with that and are intermarrying with Asians alot. But they don't go out and publically assault them the way Black men out here do.
It has to be the useless black men that are out there abusing their own women. As for the men that don't defend black womanhood, they are just as useless. And they wonder why in this society they will always be looked down upon. If you can't defend you women and take care of your children, you have no use and you deserve whatever calamity that comes your way.
anyway i think this SWP got his YT suspended, if it is at all true. it may be the last of him *crosses fingers* i don't see his videos listed up on YT so maybe it actually happened.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XFqg1Q7Sg5Q
This is common, not surprising, and something that Black women should care less about. Black women can date whoever they want also, so let Black men do their thing.
I'm blessed to live in Maryland, be married to wornderful Black men, and see loads of beautiful Black couples at church and in the community. Don't know any of these bitter Black men personally, but I know that they are out there.
http://www.youtube.com/user/TheSargeWP
Different name, same mentality.
infact at my school i bring up the converstation whenever i can and tell these women to think outside the box. they may not do it now, but believe they are thinking about it. that's how i started. until the light went on.
these dudes only look like jokes, cuz in the end they still have a responsibility as man. just check out sara's blog on bm/ww and children. even when they have children w/ these women they still leave them. don't think the grass is greener on the other side. they want to feel like men and tell women what to do. i hear all the time from some of my ww friends who were treated no differently from bw. that's why i still just dont give a sh*t when i c bm/ww.
but im interested in those types of vidoes. im more interested in seeing more bw and wm express their attration towards each other.
let these dudes fight amongst themselves.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gRSgUTWffMQ&feature=related
That Malcolm X video was perfect for this guy.